Showing posts with label Children. Televisions. Computer screens. Reality vs. fantasy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Televisions. Computer screens. Reality vs. fantasy. Show all posts

Sunday, February 8, 2009

The screens in my life

When I was young, I remember the fierce discussion about how much t.v. you should let children watch. Being a child myself, I was of course in favor of letting them watch as much as they want, but I also being at least half-convinced/frightened by the arguments that it would ruin your eyes and rot your brain (if not exactly curve your spine - that was something else). I think the general idea was that you should not sit in front of a screen more than 2-3 hours a day.  

Now, some forty years later, I find myself surrounded by more screens than I (or anyone else) could have ever imagined. At work, I sit in front of a computer screen for at least 5 hours a day. In the evenings, at home, I usually work on one or more of our four computers. I mostly only use the one I am using to write this blog, but there are days when I have three of them on simultaneously, for different things. Then, when I finish whatever it was I needed the computer for (making music, writing a blog, surfing the Internet, checking out friends on one of the various social networks), I go down to the living room to watch t.v., usually for an hour or so. In the weekend, I might also spend some time in the basement, doing simulated sports on - you guessed - yet another screen. All in all, I would say I spend about 7 hours or more in front of a screen each day. Of course, most of those screens are not cathode ray tubes, and as far as I know, no-one has gone blind yet watching t.v.. I am not too worried about the total amount of time spent, other than when it takes away time on other things that they should also be doing. 

But I am worried about the underlying issue, which is how your view of reality may change as a result (or, as some people have put it, how t.v. can rot the brain). I remember how, when I was a student, I once read seven books by the same writer (Jerzy Kozinski) in a single weekend. I was so engrossed I hardly slept. When I finally did leave the house to get something to eat, I was almost run down crossing the road, because the real world no longer seemed very real. 

Of course, this was an extreme case, but I think it is probably similar to what happens when children try to act out what they have seen in a movie, cartoon or computer game: the boundary between real and imaginary has somehow become unclear. For the most part, my children are a lot better in making that distinction than I first expected, but they do sometimes need confirmation ("people can't really fly, can they, daddy?"). And when they do, I am very happy to give it to them!